Contentment

ruthjmward@gmail.com Contentment: an emotional state of satisfaction that can be seen as a mental state drawn from being at ease in one's situation, body and mind; a state of having accepted one's situation and is a milder and more tentative form of happiness. ”He…

Keep Calm and Carry On

ruthjimward@gmail.com Keep Calm and Carry On—a British understatement—was a motivational poster slogan produced by the Government of the United Kingdom in 1939 in preparation for World War II, but now enjoys general currency as an expression of resilience --calling for persistence in the face of challenge.…

Continuing Crossed Off

ruthjimward@gmail.com Crossed Off continues to afford sharing responders’ viewpoints exceeding my original focus, plus an intriguing question that presents a challenging option. Questions are always appreciated. Friendships—living relationships--although they are treasured, many do not survive in lieu of normal moves, marriages, divorces, deaths, changes in interests, growth…

Crossed Off

ruthjimward@gmail.com. When I shared with a friend that I was considering Crossed Off for the next blog subject, she paused a moment, then said “Oh, I get it. Yes, I just love crossing things off my list.” When I said that I had in mind those who feel…

Domino Transitions

ruthjimward@gmail.com The Transitions Galore blog generated responses referring to transitions as hard-knocks, second-hand transitions, rolling with the punches, forced, inherited or domino transitions citing negative effects but emphasizing benefits as well, which will be our focus this week. The first use of Domino Effect: was in 1966; Ripple…

Transitions Galore

ruthjimward@gmail.com The youngest to the oldest contend with expected and unexpected positive and negative life changes—transitions—from creating chaos and disturbances, with tears/anger, to unexpected, exciting new opportunities.  Our focus will be on transitions which plummet backwards to dependency, or forward to new undertakings in order…

Digesting Gobbled-up, Overbearing Responses

ruthjimward@gmail.com The following responses to: The question to ask is are we coming across overwhelming or overpowering to others?  provide additional insight in identifying abrasive, insensitive and overbearing attitudes. Oh, how grateful I am for your insights. I am a gobbler. In fact, it has taken discipline over…

Gobbled-up, Overbearing

ruthjimward@gmail.com The gobbled-up expression came from a dear friend, a strong Introvert, who years ago vented: “When Joe and I recently visited his parents for a few days, as soon as we arrived, before we even unloaded the car, Madge after hugging everyone, directed me to sit right…