Checking Your Tank

ruthjimward@gmail.com Sheila’s question prompts prudence in Checking Your Tank based on decision-making--Thinking and Feeling--#3 area of preferences from the Temperament Type Indicator (MBTI).  For clarity, I’ve added Head-Logic Thinking and Heart-Logic Feeling.  Sixty percent of males prefer making Head-Logic decisions and 60 percent of females…

Who Knew?

ruthjimward@gmail.com After sharing with a friend that I was doing a blog on the blessings of the unknown, he shared this story: One fall evening as I was relaxing in my lawn chair, I heard someone screaming”. I ran to the road and found a woman I didn’…

Wrapping up Rituals

ruthjimward@gmail.com An old Proverb introduces this blog emphasis: Those are rich who have true friends. Relatives certainly fall into this equation. The focus includes responses regarding the value to young people of extended family reunions, an “Aha!” moment’s email from a relieved Introvert and ideas about the…

Rituals Personified

ruthjimward@gmail.com An extended family reunion is perhaps the most influential ritual and no doubt the most difficult to continue as grandparents age, families move apart and older members pass away, but as the responses reiterate, the significance lasts a lifetime especially if you have access to a group…

Drop Donuts

ruthjimward@gmail.com. Seventy-three family members from nine states were drawn to Holiday Hills resort in central Kentucky for the Thursday to Thursday 65th McRoberts Camp-out Reunion having rented every townhouse, cabin, lake side houses, camper spots, looking forward to hugs, visits and drop donuts. This week’s focus continues…

Treasures of a Unique Wedding

ruthjimward@gmail.com Five minutes into a walk, a neighbor about my age stopped me. “Where have you been? Are you ok? I’ve missed your blogs.”  “We had a wedding at our house this last weekend,” I replied. “How exciting”, she said. “Who got married?” “My granddaughter”.  After I…

Seasoning Seasons

ruthjimward@gmail.com As I anticipated my last hurrah with the 80’s decade, I reminisced the seasons of my life and the importance of each terrifying, exciting, and unique advancements of each.  My reflections carved out six. As I made notes, I was acutely aware that everyone would not…

Understanding Rescue Goliaths

ruthjimward@gmail.com (Email responses to Silencing Goliath basically agreed with the two following emails: Bottom line, pick your battles, be happy. H.   We do have to pick our battles, for certain! In every situation of every day there are conflicts that can develop and turn a day bad. Keep…