This final blog in this series covers tonal-language messaging—30 percent of communication--shifting between raised or lowered tonal-pitch and loud or soft volume as it craftily companions with word selection and body language adding color and vitality to dialogue. Everyone’s voice quality is unique. No one speaks exactly like…
‘Actions speak louder than words’ is a phrase that we’ve all heard with the inference primarily to deeds done, but also applies to the truism of body language speaking louder than words at times as well as inspiring a favorite group game--charades. As I mentally inventoried the silent but…
Body language--Eye Communication Amazingly, as previously shared, words (context) are the least in communication, netting a mere 10 percent with body language placing first place and tone touting second. Believe me, this is a bitter pill for writers of all styles to swallow, but observation supports those facts in just…
Last week’s word-power naturally moves on to acquiring the skill of withdrawing positive benefits from disagreements and discussions before they lapse into hurtful and dividing arguments which are usually of little benefit to anyone. Disagreements in small doses are healthy, especially when edifying discussions ensue. Discussions not only deter…
Despite the evident strength that body language and tone exude in communication, with context claiming only 10 percent of the trio, whether spoken, mouthed, written or sung, the power of words predominates in empowering, encouraging, entertaining, comforting or irritating or frightening others. Words in all their forms and styles require…
A reader requested that I offer marriage counseling in my blogs. I’ve decided to share ideas for relationship enrichment that can also be applied to parents/children, siblings, the work place, with friends, and in clubs, churches and class rooms. As I opened the door for a couple who…
Transition Perspectives September 12, 2021 Relationship Enrichment was my intended series planned for fall but comments and emails urged me to expand on Bridging Transitions. I’m sharing several. Cool perspective Ruth... A gem, chock full of information to tuck away and haul out to reflect on when unexpected transitions…
This last week I became acutely aware of all the different transitions I’ve been experiencing since Jim’s passing a year and a half ago, especially as I am frequently and painfully correcting “we” to “I”. I was well into jotting notes when brother John called and I inquired…
